Singledom
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Darren is most certainly not my god!
Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
Quote: Claire, Dec 2009It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
Quote: Claire, Dec 2009
I do know that, women need to know it. Though some know and still reject me because they like 'bad guys'.
I do actually know a couple of girls who I think I could have a good chance with, however, I don't make a move because they are BORING. Which is a hateful thing to say but it's TRUE.
Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009Quote: Claire, Dec 2009It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
I do know that, women need to know it. Though some know and still reject me because they like 'bad guys'.
I do actually know a couple of girls who I think I could have a good chance with, however, I don't make a move because they are BORING. Which is a hateful thing to say but it's TRUE.
Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...
Quote: Claire, Dec 2009
Hijack away! And George, I would agree with Claire based on what I know of you and the little everyone else says.
Out of interest, for peeps like Tom, George and me, what is it about getting people of the opposite (or same!) sex to be interested? If you're not highly sexy what's everyone's methods?
I think this should be turned into a general single thread where people can report on their quests for love/sex and the rest of VR can give advice where appropiate *nods*
Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009Quote: Claire, Dec 2009It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
Hijack away! And George, I would agree with Claire based on what I know of you and the little everyone else says.
Out of interest, for peeps like Tom, George and me, what is it about getting people of the opposite (or same!) sex to be interested? If you're not highly sexy what's everyone's methods?
I think this should be turned into a general single thread where people can report on their quests for love/sex and the rest of VR can give advice where appropiate *nods*
weellll, i know my problem is confidence
generally i don't have any whatsoever and i take too long to feel comfortable around people & come out of my shell
i mean... i locked myself in a toilet for 10 minutes the last time i went out >_>
i came out because i realised i was being an idiot, but yeah
generally i don't have any whatsoever and i take too long to feel comfortable around people & come out of my shell
i mean... i locked myself in a toilet for 10 minutes the last time i went out >_>
i came out because i realised i was being an idiot, but yeah
Come on!
Quote: I.R. baboon, Dec 2009
Confidence is a growing thing, back when I was a shattered husk of a man, prior to my rebirth as an all conquering gargantuan WINNER with the mind of a f*cking scientist and a c*ck like a Burmese python, I tried to focus on the little wins, chatting to new people, just getting out, then taking it from there and remembering those little WINS the next time you feel a bit sh*t, then building on them, till you're just one huge f*ck off ball of WIN, bitchslapping sh*t all over the f*cking show.
In summary; Hang in there
weellll, i know my problem is confidence
generally i don't have any whatsoever and i take too long to feel comfortable around people & come out of my shell
i mean... i locked myself in a toilet for 10 minutes the last time i went out >_>
i came out because i realised i was being an idiot, but yeah
Confidence is a growing thing, back when I was a shattered husk of a man, prior to my rebirth as an all conquering gargantuan WINNER with the mind of a f*cking scientist and a c*ck like a Burmese python, I tried to focus on the little wins, chatting to new people, just getting out, then taking it from there and remembering those little WINS the next time you feel a bit sh*t, then building on them, till you're just one huge f*ck off ball of WIN, bitchslapping sh*t all over the f*cking show.
In summary; Hang in there
River Phoenix
Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009
i didn't know George had a long tongue but i s'pose that Veg Rev is full of amazing discoveries.
Quote: Valerie Holliday, Dec 2009And you have a very long tongue.
Thumbs up.
I can touch my nose and everything *smug*
i didn't know George had a long tongue but i s'pose that Veg Rev is full of amazing discoveries.
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Quote: Abacus, Dec 2009
Nah, last girl I ended up seeing was the sister to my then guitarist, he had spent ages banging on to her and in turn me about how well we'd get on... Figures he was right.. More right than he was expecting (To the point where he actually banned us from meeting for ages for this very reason). So erm, having mates bang onto folk about how awesome you are or how well you'd get one maybe?
Quote: Claire, Dec 2009I find clubbing them over the head helps...Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009Quote: Claire, Dec 2009It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
Out of interest, for peeps like Tom, George and me, what is it about getting people of the opposite (or same!) sex to be interested? If you're not highly sexy what's everyone's methods?
Nah, last girl I ended up seeing was the sister to my then guitarist, he had spent ages banging on to her and in turn me about how well we'd get on... Figures he was right.. More right than he was expecting (To the point where he actually banned us from meeting for ages for this very reason). So erm, having mates bang onto folk about how awesome you are or how well you'd get one maybe?
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Oi!
Quote: Abacus, Dec 2009
Confidence, like everyone else has said, is key.
I don't consider myself attractive, but I don't really find going out with girls very difficult, it depends though. I mean anyone can pull in a nightclub, and what you do to pull a girl can directly affect what you get out of it. A cheesy chat-up line will get you a slap or sex if she thinks it's cute. A compliment will get you a slap or a date and rohypnol will get you pretty much anything you want and a prison sentence.
Trying to go out with a girl you already know is hard though, I've always found it hard to steer clear of the dreaded "friend zone" myself. I went out with a girl from work once and it didn't really take that much; chatting, compliments and a lot of flirting got me a date and a further three months of going out with her before I eventually realised she was an asshole.
Anyway, for girls confidence is all you need, aprt from remembering to be yourself. It's cliché, I know, but it's very true. For guys it's a different story, but I'll leave that for another thread!
Quote: Claire, Dec 2009Quote: Kid A, Dec 2009Quote: Claire, Dec 2009It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread
Sod it, VR is dying, post where you like. Alexatron is probably off somewhere with his hareem, he won't mind. I guess I just think you need to believe in yourself more, man. There are so many sh*te men in the world who treat everyone like crap and don't think about anyone but themselves. You are better than them, you need to know that.
Hijack away! And George, I would agree with Claire based on what I know of you and the little everyone else says.
Out of interest, for peeps like Tom, George and me, what is it about getting people of the opposite (or same!) sex to be interested? If you're not highly sexy what's everyone's methods?
I think this should be turned into a general single thread where people can report on their quests for love/sex and the rest of VR can give advice where appropiate *nods*
Confidence, like everyone else has said, is key.
I don't consider myself attractive, but I don't really find going out with girls very difficult, it depends though. I mean anyone can pull in a nightclub, and what you do to pull a girl can directly affect what you get out of it. A cheesy chat-up line will get you a slap or sex if she thinks it's cute. A compliment will get you a slap or a date and rohypnol will get you pretty much anything you want and a prison sentence.
Trying to go out with a girl you already know is hard though, I've always found it hard to steer clear of the dreaded "friend zone" myself. I went out with a girl from work once and it didn't really take that much; chatting, compliments and a lot of flirting got me a date and a further three months of going out with her before I eventually realised she was an asshole.
Anyway, for girls confidence is all you need, aprt from remembering to be yourself. It's cliché, I know, but it's very true. For guys it's a different story, but I'll leave that for another thread!
Rayanne Graff:
His name is George. Also, he started Spam.
Rayanne Graff:
i spoke to him a couple of times and that was in October of 2009.
the doc:
Wow, a proper old head
Rayanne Graff:
Yeah, he was the 15th person to join.
satansrubberduck:
I didn't directly start Spam. Also the proof of that long since disappeared.
Rayanne Graff:
No, it didn't; the Spam spam spam you made in 2002 is on page 105 of the Spam board.
satansrubberduck:
Oh. I looked for it years ago and couldn't find it. The colour tags are (thankfully) broken.
satansrubberduck:
Odd to think it's been over a decade since I first got involved with 'Zine.
Claire:
It's not odd to me since I've just had the exact same conversation with you...
I Cunt Spell:
YOU'RE ALL OLD
I Cunt Spell:
SO VERY VERY OLD
Captain Stupendo:
SRD made an appearence holy moly haven't seen him on here for years
Maeby:
JIM!
the doc:
Wow, event Starws isn't here tonight 
the doc:
Straws ^
the doc:
*whistles*
the doc:
Ah well, off I go as well then
Rayanne Graff:
Sorry, Stu; i was busy tidying things. xx
