Singledom

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Gob

| 12,021 posts


29th Nov 2009 at 6:48 pm

Gob - Come on!

Come on!

 
Quote: Abacus, Nov 2009
Good advice, Cagster

The "date" was actually rather nice with the 19 year-old although I'm not sure it was a date. How do you define a date? Does someone actually have to mention the word date? We know each other a bit at work, have a chat etc and she asked me to go see the new Twilight film with her. We then got some food and went for a drink...She's single, knows I'm single and kept going on about how cold it was in the cinema (which it wasn't) until I put my arm around her (apparently my coat was insufficent in the fight against the cinema coldness). I didn't do anything else and she also kept holding my arm around town. I know women are complex but am I safe in assuming she may like me there or do I need a written admission first?


Stick your lips on it and if she doesn't recoil in abject horror you'll be right, then pummel here and f*ck her off, she'll be ruined after that.

Dissimulation

| 5,667 posts


29th Nov 2009 at 8:12 pm

Dissimulation - My moustache still tastes of your testes!

My moustache still tastes of your testes!

 
This. Take the initiative and ask her out on a second 'date'. if/when the opportunity presents itself, be confident and make your intentions clear.
I mean, what was she wearing to be that cold in a cinema? Assuming the girl was dressed for the occasion and isn't suffering from poor circulation, both that and holding your arm around town, seems like a green light to me mate. I mean, the arm thing is almost a subconscious 'this one's mine'. It's definitely nowhere near as vague as the signs of interest a lot of women will give you to work with.

Go for it!

Lord Havelock Vetinari

| 6,764 posts


29th Nov 2009 at 10:24 pm

Lord Havelock Vetinari - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
I'll see her Tuesday and see how things are. She makes a refreshing change from headf*ck girl who I sort of messed up with so hopefully I won't need to think much.
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Lord Havelock Vetinari

| 6,764 posts


29th Nov 2009 at 11:09 pm

Lord Havelock Vetinari - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
I'm pretty good at surpressing.
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Lord Havelock Vetinari

| 6,764 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 7:04 pm

Lord Havelock Vetinari - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Got a second date next Tuesday with 19 year-old. she agreed fairly readily to it and I was actually reasonably charming for, perhaps, the first time in my life...mainly because I stole Bernard from Black Books' "do you eat, I eat, want to do it in the same room some time?" line. I'm pretty sure she'll never watch Black Books so I think I'm safe to not have to admit I stole that.



I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Jingle

| 4,578 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 7:51 pm

Jingle - WOO-HAH!

WOO-HAH!

 
It sounds like she is well into you insisting on a cuddle in cinema! When I go to the cinema on not-a-date I'm terrified that the guy will try to put his arm around me, I don't know what I'd do. Definitely not a friend thing in my opinion.

Claire

| 15,258 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:15 pm

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
Alexatron, you studmuffin.
Coloured Lilac And Insults Really Excessively

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

John Cage Bubblegum

| 6,551 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:26 pm

John Cage Bubblegum -

 
I've been single for longer than I care to remember. It's a bit sh*t to be honest.

Thanks for reading
Peter Kenyon has a medal

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| 11,612 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:36 pm

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I have been single for soooooooooooooooo long. It's my own fault.

Claire

| 15,258 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:39 pm

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.
Coloured Lilac And Insults Really Excessively

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

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| 11,612 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:42 pm

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Quote: Claire, Dec 2009
It is stupid women's fault, George. Blame women, it will make you feel better, and is also more truthful. My impression of you is as a bloke who would look after a lass and who would make her laugh and feel special and I'm sure most here, if not all, would agree.

I'd disagree with you for various reasons but I don't want to hijack Alex's thread

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| 11,612 posts


4th Dec 2009 at 8:43 pm

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Quote: Valerie Holliday, Dec 2009
And you have a very long tongue.
Thumbs up.


I can touch my nose and everything *smug*


 
 
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